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    Something Is Happening Here

    It’s getting easier to share my writings and as comments pour in there is a new found motivation happening. So far the topics that seem to resonate the most are fitness/wellness and health, beauty, faith and spirituality, and a few of the life lessons learned. While this is an assumption, it informs me that the writing needs to be relatable and not always offer a solution-  but perhaps invite someone to share their experience, thoughts and opinions. A common ground really. But something else is happening as well, showing up to my blog allowed me to talk freely (where I felt comfortable in sharing publicly) about myself, my struggles, fears and…

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    Opinions Are Like Belly Buttons…

    “Opinions are like belly buttons, everyone has it but they don’t really matter.” I got that from a YouTube-er that I admire. Earlier today another person I follow online – and whom I still admire – shared their experience in the design and technology space. At this point I may have given this thing way too much energy and should probably let it rest – but I can’t. I decided to share my experience within the design industry and I’d like to believe mine matters – especially when you are addressing women in design and technology – that are black, which you can’t seem to find. This was my response, and…

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    A Life Of Waiting

    How many times have you said these things? I can’t wait until I’m an adult!  I can’ wait until I’m older! I can’t wait to get to high school, college, graduate… I can’t wait until I’m 21  I can’t wait to have a boyfriend I can’t wait to get married I can’t wait to have children I can’t wait to get that promotion…..  As you get older the “I can’t wait turns into something else. Other people are waiting to see your life transform. Maybe its so that you can share experiences and stories (that’s the positive spin on it – but not everyone is for you). It doesn’t help…

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    Emotionally Dumping On People

    You are responsible for your own happiness.  I think this is a known fact that everyone is aware of, yet rarely practiced. It’s this thing that people know – it’s no one else’s responsibility to make you happy. Its funny though because it can be quite easy for someone else to make you upset or transfer the set of emotions. If there’s anything I’ve learned this year is that mindset is everything. I was going to name this post happiness, but I figured I’d talk a little more about the issue I’m facing behind the post. So yes – I am well aware that I am responsible for my own happiness…

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    Light Bulb Moment

    I see that day by day, the Lord has a lot to reveal to me. I am thankful that He does it lightly. I’ve learned so much more about myself and I’m grateful that I still have time to change and improve and Confess all that I’ve done wrong before it’s too late. I’m growing in Christ… Peace and Blessings … Keshna